Interesting FB Conversation: Leaving a Job You Don’t Love is a No-Brainer and a No-Hearter

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22 Nov 2009

Steve Pavlina: Leaving a job you don’t LOVE is a NO-BRAINER and a NO-HEARTER. To unhappily stay is a STUPID and WEAK-MINDED choice.
Fri at 10:39pm via Twitter · Comment · LikeVinicio Castillo and 34 others like this.

Charles Scheidecker:  I’m leaving the j.o.b. that I don’t love in a month so we have time to pack the belongings we want to take with us, sell what others can use, and give away the rest. I’m amused, the company I work for will be hiring two people to replace me.
Fri at 10:46pm

Denis Andrejew: … so if you got done the work of 2 people at a job you did not like, you’ll get done the work of at least 4 people in a “job” you love :D
Fri at 10:51pm

Milena Šo?: yeah, don’t you hate it when those stupid, poor people work jobs they don’t love just to support their kids… o.O
Fri at 10:52pm

Ryan Johnson: Made the switch about 6 weeks ago, and I’m loving every minute of it!
Fri at 11:02pm

Michelle LaPorte: How very true! But by any chance can we create a post on manifestation technics people prefer. And new ideas to manifest.. Going outside our comfort zone and still creating as if inside our zone. I’m so proud how I’ve changed my life. And the love I’ve brought into my life. And at first I couldn’t conceive of more.. But now it’s bringing that new zone into my world. I would like to hear how and what others have done and are doing to break through even farther. Thanks Steve
Fri at 11:06pm

Greg DiBruno: Can’t believe you just posted this Steve. I just left work after 4 hours and have to go back at 10 tonight for a 12 to 16 hour shift. I hate this job, but I’m stuck going because my wife is out of work and need the money for the holidays. It is a job I took for the money and now, I’d rather make 8 bucks an hour to be happy. I just told my wife that I wasn’t this unhappy when I found out my Son was autistic. I just want to leave so bad but can’t do that to my family. What a spot I’m in.
Fri at 11:32pm

Will Nesbitt: I’m with you on that, Steve!! For months I’ve been saying I was going to leave my job, but kept finding excuses to stay (I need to save enough money and such). And every day I stay gets worse. However, I’ve worked up the nerve to actually give my two weeks notice today. Your post is right on time. Synch.
Fri at 11:42pm

Steve Pavlina: @Greg – Who are you trying to convince… me or yourself? I remain perpetually unpersuaded by excuses, especially ones that are as feeble as “needing money for the holidays.” How is that a justification for throwing one’s precious life away doing something you hate? If you’re going to BS me, you can at least come up with something more persuasive.
Yesterday at 12:38am

Greg DiBruno: Steve, that isn’t BSing you. But how responsible would that be to quit a job and leave my family with no income. I have a mortgage and a car payment and school tuition for my children. Why would you even assume that I am BSing you? Why would I lie and what would I gain by doing so? Would it be better for me to quit to be happy and lose what little I have? Is that the advice you give to someone who has been following you both on here and your personal website? Maybe there is a message in what you are saying but I guess I’m missing it. Sorry to say that. I’m not at all upset at your comment, just a little taken back as to what you might mean.
Yesterday at 1:21am

Faisal Ally: @Greg – You’re not lying man. You are not conscious of the fact that you are coming up with excuses. What do you love doing man? If you had 6 months to live, would you be doing this job?
Yesterday at 1:29am

Jessica Laureni: second
Yesterday at 1:37am

Morgan Landry: @Greg, of course “failing to plan is planning to fail” if you quit right now without a source of income. But staying in a toxic environment without trying to find an escape route is just as damaging to yourself and your family. Be realistic, but be healthy.
Yesterday at 1:39am

Steve Pavlina: @Greg – You’re BSing yourself more than anyone else, and you’re robbing your family of something much greater than money — a happy husband and father. F— the mortgage and the car payments and sending your kids off to be conditioned. If you aren’t happy, you’re just teaching them how to be unhappy anyway. You’re setting a crappy example, showing them how to live as a slave. Is that what you want for them?
Yesterday at 1:40am

Michelle LaPorte: Greg I agree with Faisal. You are the creator of what you truly want. While you say it’s not this, it honnestly is. To change the result, change the desire. I left my job last July… 6 figures and I left. Best decision I ever made. I have a mortgage actually two. One child in college two more about to go. I’ve never been as happy or abundant in my life. Will my w2 say six figures this year.. Who knows and who cares! With time to truly contemplate your desires comes a life beyond dreams. In other words “Wake Up”
Yesterday at 1:40am

Greg DiBruno: @Faisal- I would be running my own business from home making money with the internet. But my fear is that while I start this up, I will loose money. I can have the mind-set that if I quit, I have to make it happen, but the pain of it not working is the fear that is keeping me from my pleasure. I just am wondering why Steve would take that approach with me. I’m anxious to know if I angered him or is he trying to make me see something? I am at a real cross road and looking for some honest advice. I mean if he or anyone did it, what is it for someone to share the lesson? Am I making any sense?
Yesterday at 1:43am

Steve Pavlina: @Greg – Sacrificing the important for the irrelevant is no way to live at all. Besides, when you’re happy and fulfilled, it’s easy enough to attract all the money and material stuff you desire. If you’re doing unfulfilling work, you’re already bankrupt. You have NOTHING. You’re already at rock bottom. There is nowhere to go but up. You’re just in deep denial of that. If you think I can condone that sort of cowardly behavior, think again. I don’t let my friends pull that kind of crap on me and get away with it. If you can’t handle that, then unfriend me and go back to pretending that you’re living consciously instead of hiding from your real path. But please don’t try to BS me with a list of feeble excuses. Sacrificing your happiness for a car and some Xmas gifts — that’s just insane.
Yesterday at 1:45am

Kristin Smith: Steve, wholeheartedly agree, although for those of us who haven’t made this step… it’s a tough thing to admit. I left the ugliness of corporate America to run a small business, and have never felt better.
We are making decisions and choices (consciously and unconsciously) every minute of every day, on some level. Want to change something? Decide you are going to change it, and take the necessary actions to get to your destination. Indecision, confusion, and apathy will leave you paralyzed. True decision will begin to set up things in the universe so that things may happen for you… Manifestation is simply an act of deciding, visualizing, and most importantly, ACTING in congruence with the decision!
Yesterday at 1:49am

Greg DiBruno: Steve, I do understand what you are saying. And I do agree, but I just don’t know what the right move is right now. I honestly love being home with my family even if I am making no money. And I always said its not the money. But if I loose everything wouldn’t that teach them an even worse lesson? Wouldn’t they be mad that I lost what little I had? You made this decision at one point in your life. I just don’t know and reading between the lines isn’t helping much. I don’t how I am BSing myself.
Yesterday at 1:50am

Michelle LaPorte: Steve, marvelous reminder to us all.. It’s amazing the honnesty you share.
Yesterday at 1:52am

Faisal Ally: @Greg – What type of business do you want to run? What is it that you want to offer the world? Look beyond money, if you had to do or give something for free, what would that be? I’m sure you have plenty to give to this world, its just a matter of finding what values interest you.
Yesterday at 1:52am

Faisal Ally: “Wouldn’t they be mad that I lost what little I had?” They would be more mad if you did not get yourself back up from hitting this rock bottom and not doing what you really get pleasure in doing or giving.
Yesterday at 1:54am

Steve Pavlina: @Greg – quite simple really. Only takes a sec. Just go to your boss and say, “I quit.” Done. Since you know the job is unfulfilling, that’s all the reason you need to dump it. Can’t attract anything better while you’re using a job to hold yourself back. Everything else in your life can be regained on a heart-centered path — and it will come faster and easier too. What would a courageous person do in your situation?
Yesterday at 1:55am

Michelle LaPorte: Greg, can you find a way to love and feel fullfilled in your current position? If you can start the happiness, joy and abundance without leaving the current position. You’ll notice your attraction and magnetism will bring more love and abundance in multiple facets. It’s not all about the money… That’s a by product. Find the joy! I hope I ws able to help.
Yesterday at 1:56am

Vinicio Castillo: I made the decision to quit my job & to pursue my passion 2 years ago. Starting my own buisness. I have yet to be profitable but I know the abundance will follow because my mind does not have all that negativity it had before. I am able to continue on without giving up. Find something you will do for free.
Yesterday at 1:56am

Davy Russell: I quit my job (that I “needed” to pay the bills) almost 2 years ago. I have since been making the same amount of money doing what I love and “working” a whole lot less. Once I shifted my thinking about jobs being just an option instead of a necessity, I was able to take my own skills and talents seriously and get paid for those instead. It can feel hopeless and impossible when you’re stuck in a job you hate, but once you change your thinking, it’s a lot easier to get out.
Yesterday at 2:01am

Rob Record: I’d say it’s an all-hearter ;)
Yesterday at 2:03am

Greg DiBruno: Also Steve, I have no intentions of unfriending you? But if you are a person who helps people make that shift in life, do you ever give a concrete answer? I agree with everything you and everyone else is saying. I am asking a real question here. My question is this. Would it be better for me to leave my job now and work hard every day on my dream and make my home business work? it seems everyone in this post is where they want to be, but do any of you remember when you were at this position? If there is a lesson here and I’m not seeing it, will the answer be found in what you are saying? Steve, from when I stumbled upon your site, I have been a follower and have mad respect for you. Maybe my thoughts are clouded by the BS in my life, but I’m honestly reaching out for some serious advice. Not trying to piss everyone off here.
Yesterday at 2:04am

Faisal Ally: I might not be able to give an example in my life on a job since I’m in college doing full time, but I was a computer science major in my first year…and I was getting pleasure out of nothing but pleasing my parents.
Deep down I knew something was wrong, I knew this was not what I see myself in 10 or 20 yrs in the future. I would be a very unhappy man. At that time I read ‘awaken the giant withing’ by anthony robbins…and it did not take very long to find out that my values were to give joy, inspire and help the people. This does not mean I set out a global event to end world hunger right now, but I’m starting slow…I help people find joy within themselves right now.This led me to change my major from computer science to psychology. I dunno if that helped much, but that is the best I can relate to right now.
Yesterday at 2:06am

Faisal Ally: “But if you are a person who helps people make that shift in life, do you ever give a concrete answer?”
He did give a concrete answer by saying quit your job and do what makes you joyful. He is not going to be your parent telling you every step you have to take to reach success…thats upto you to figure. What he and most of us can do is share our stories so you can get inspiration out of them.
Yesterday at 2:09am

Catherine Brickell: Fine Greg, don’t quit your job totally. But working extra for the holidays?? Does your family value a happy you or a day of xmas junk?
Yesterday at 2:14am

Greg DiBruno: Faisal, I am a big Tony Robbins Fan. I have that book as well. I might jump into it again. Also, my posts are being put out there after Steves are so I look like I’m not seeing what he is saying. I am seeing them. I would like to teach people how to make money through internet marketing. I have been studying it online for a while now, but have yet to put anything in place. But for some reason, I’m able to help others with this.
Yesterday at 2:16am

Jane Weston: Well *just perhaps* he is not ‘coming up with excuses’ but in fact explaining his difficult choices – it’s totally different!! You are the ones judging it as excuses. And why would anybody go ahead and do what they would do if they only had six months to live, unless they actually did?? And we cannot predict how we will feel about any of our choices until we live them anyway!!! Hopefully anyone can find better options from what they’ve learned so far in life with effort and creativity if they are having a hard time. But I wouldn’t care to be judged by anybody setting such hard and fast rules as to what works under all circumstances (talk about labelling people!!!!) and I wouldn’t care for their approval either. And it is possible to find peace/happiness/richness in the moment whatever that moment is. You don’t even have to leave your own head or change anything in your life for it to start working. Mindfulness as a practice is fantastic for that. And it doesn’t blast people out for how or where they are at a given time, either. It respects their individuality, and it respects their efforts to nurture their links with others. There are a thousand paths to growth and wellbeing. People setting the strongest examples usually have the grace to keep some humility.
Yesterday at 2:16am

Ramona Martineau: who told you that?
Yesterday at 2:22am

Faisal Ally: @Greg – Then maybe your value is teaching? It does not have to be restricted to one field you know. Its not that you came to this world to teach people how to do affiliate marketing for brand names of sony and panasonic. Maybe there are more things you want to teach? Can you open a website teaches people? Can you write a book about something that teaches people? Can you be a teacher/professor/football coach? I dont know. Its your life man.
Yesterday at 2:22am

Rob Record: I think you need to get into the right mindset before taking any action. Start to imagine what it would be like. Get excited about it. Don’t think about how it will happen, just what it would be like when it does happen. Also try to appreciate what your current work is doing for you, despite the fact that it’s not what you ultimately want. You know it’s a stop gap. You know that, and it’s ok. You can see past it. Keep your dream in mind as often as you can remind yourself to think about it. Think about it because you enjoy thinking about it! The trick is to be OK with where you are, and still desiring what would be better. Then you will notice lots of inspiration and people with the right info/contacts coming into your life. Trust in the process.. this is how it works. Know that it CAN happen. Most important of all: Look deep inside and be true to yourself :) Only you know what the right moves are.
Yesterday at 2:25am

Charles Scheidecker: Stuff can be replaced. Your spirit can’t. It’s up to you to decide which you want to nurture and grow: your undying spirit or your desire to acquire.
Yesterday at 2:26am

Greg DiBruno: Jane, Bingo. I am sure that most of the people here are pretty well off. It is also easy for people to throw “sayings” out there and force people to read between the lines. I actually did feel blasted on here. Not by everyone, but some. That said, I believe that they did mean well. But when you are in this frame of mind it is not to easy to “see the light”. I am trying hard, but I still have to be a provider for my family. Not one person seemed to see that, mention that or understand that. All I am hearing is about mindsets.
Yesterday at 2:26am

Steve Pavlina: @Greg: I don’t know how much more concrete I can be other that saying to go to your boss and say, “I quit.” Is that really too ambiguous for you? If you need it to be more concrete, carve the words “I quit” in stone and hand it to him/her. Can I be more direct about this? Your next steps after that won’t become clear until you handle that one first. That’s your test. As long as you’re willing to settle for unhappiness, you’ll remain stuck in a fog and won’t be able to see past it. Your first step is to remove yourself from the fog. And that can be done in 1 second by saying 2 words. A lot of things will become clear very quickly after you quit. So get that handled first. You’ll feel like a whole new man for taking such an act of courage. That’s the energetic state of being you need to be in for planning your next steps. You can’t plan them where you’re are now because your plans will surely suck. Your vibration is way too low to clearly see the road ahead.
Yesterday at 2:28am

Rob Record: That’s because belief plays into this to a very large degree. The details are personal. Your fear of what could go wrong is always a limiting factor. Limiting is not bad per se, but it could stand in the way of what you really want.
Yesterday at 2:28am

Rob Record: “That’s the energetic state of being you need to be in for planning your next steps.” I agree with this.
Yesterday at 2:30am

Faisal Ally: @Jane – Yes I do agree with you that its how a person sees the world and yes happiness can be found if you are being present in the moment. But you can also be present while working on a job that is really fulfilling right? More like say you have a choice between the road or a house to sleep in. If a house isnt affordable for you, find peace by living on the road, but as for my personal boundaries, I would like my best to get to that house…and be living in that moment ;) Just a win win situation no?
Yesterday at 2:41am

Andy Ess: Well, that explains why I can’t get a job since I hate them all! I’ve been blogging for several years now (which I love to do) and it’s the only source of income that I’m pulling in. Right now, I’m only making $37 a month, but it’s $37 more than I thought I could make when I first started blogging. Thanks for encouraging me to monetize my writings!!
Yesterday at 2:41am

Davy Russell: @Greg, I know how you feel. When I first read Steve’s “10 Reasons You Should Never Get a Job”, it definitely rubbed me the wrong way. I knew I hated my job, but was annoyed that I couldn’t fine a detailed plan for leaving and still make money. My journey from job to freedom was quick. Got married in Dec. ‘07. January ‘08, I quite my day job with just 2 months living expenses saved up and tons of debt. April ‘08 moved out of state so that I could make a living doing what I love freelance. It was a huge risk, or at least felt like it at the time.
I’ve yet to go hungry or miss a rent payment, though. Some months have been a little tight financially, but it’s funny, my wife won’t let me get a job because she’d rather be poor for a month or two than have a miserable husband.
Yesterday at 3:14am

Jane Weston: @Faisal Ally: I think that we can change how we feel about our outer world without changing anything on the outside, and through that find more options than we’d previously ever realised. I ‘quite like’ my job when I’m in neutral gear. I can think myself into hating it if I focus on it in a certain light, or I can think myself into really loving it. The frame I choose from where I stand can help determine my life without changing anything on the outside. Now, if in neutral gear I thought my job ‘kind of sucked’, I would have a much harder time getting my mental frame up to ‘I love it’. Maybe it would be impossible, but it would be much easier for me to move forward if I could even get my mind to ‘it’s ok for now’ and then think creatively about the future and enjoy the better things around me that were still there in my life. Sure, quitting could work. But then I’d still need to work on how I felt about the consequences of quitting. And I could not ever predict those – so why assume quitting is automatically the best option? And certainly why claim that staying (perhaps just for now) is necessarily a weaker course of action?
Yesterday at 3:14am

Erica Schaefer: @Andy: I’m the same way.. I hate all jobs that I can think of. @Everyone else+ Steve: I have a slightly different problem than Greg.. I have a job I hate (kinda despise really) and it’s not a corporate job it’s only waitressing.. but my problem is I can’t figure out what I want/would love to do??? I have tried your suggestions on your site for finding life purpose.. but haven’t been able to figure it out… I can’t think of anything I would love to do that could make any form of money at all???? I actually took almost 2 months off my job and tried to figure out some stuff but I never could figure it out… If I up and quit with no other ideas/plan then my roommate will kick me and my cats out… I will have no money and no where to go (I have no savings)… So what should I do if I have absolutely no idea what I want to do/would love to do instead? I don’t even have a general idea.
Yesterday at 3:54am

Emily Gardner: I just put in notice at the job I don’t Love this week. I feel amazing! :)
Yesterday at 4:14am

Rachelle Fordyce: Erica – Wow. No idea at all? Hmmmm. What are some of the things you love to do, or look forward to doing, just for fun? What gets you excited?
Yesterday at 4:19am

Brian Fryer: @Erica: I was in the same situation as you are in (sans waitressing). However, things started coming *after* my job left me (yes, the job left me). I used to be very frustrated because I felt like I didn’t know what I wanted to do. All the “answers” felt like they weren’t very valuable… like there wasn’t anything concrete about them. Now I’m doing all sorts of things that provide value for others: graphic design, game development, relationship building, charity networking, and writing a cookbook to name a few. Before all these things came into my life, I tried really, really, really hard to “figure out” what it was that I wanted to do. But I’ve come to realize that this is not how the Universe works. The Universe does not strain. Everything it does is natural, easy, and flowing. When you release your wanting to figure it out, then (and only then) will you naturally be brought what you need and when you need it. You too will receive much deserved praise for your work (the value you provide), you too will impress, you too will inspire. And all because you are naturally worthy.
Yesterday at 4:34am

Erica Schaefer: @Rachelle: Yeah no idea… I haven’t thought of or found anything that gets excited enough to do it for very long… I’m a gemini so I like many different things, but nothing enough to stick with it so far… If money was no issue.. I would travel the world, learn languages, and collect hobbies… I’m a starter but horrible at finishing anything… I feel that if it’s something I’m meant to do then I will love it enough to do it… only things I do now that I love are watching movies, tv shows, and searching stuff online… I don’t really have hobbies cuz most things I’ve ever wanted to try costs money I don’t have…. @Brian: I thought maybe if I wasn’t working I’d have more time to figure things out… so I did manage to stop working for those 2 mo… but nothing showed up no epiphanies.. all I managed to do is almost not be able to feed myself without having money and solidify my roommate kicking me out if I ever quit without money coming in. If I had even an idea to run with that I knew I wanted to do then I would… I’m very much a dreamer and risk taker person and I never think a job is worth anything to kill myself over… but I don’t have something that I know I love that I’m “just too afraid to try”.. I just don’t know what I want.. if I knew what I wanted then I’d know what to do to get it…. So this is why I’m just always feeling lost and unhappy that I have to eat to live and I need money for that
Yesterday at 5:08am

Karen Sharp: I sometimes feel at such a loss when I read Steve on quitting, or other people on jobs they hate. I have a job I truly love, working with high-integrity, low-stress, mature human beings doing valuable work for the world. It’s not connected with my purpose on the planet, but I’m working on that as well. I call my job “my beloved day-job” and mean both sides of that fully. When it will be time to quit, to do my true vocation full-time, I will do so eagerly and with gladness, but also with gratitude and real grief. Not every job that’s not the task of our heart is something that has to be jettisoned in order to be happy.
Yesterday at 5:09am

Jane Weston: Wow… inspiring stuff Karen :)
Yesterday at 5:25am

Allen Ellis: @Erica, since you love traveling why don’t you look into programs abroad? I know for a fact there are programs in Japan that will pay Americans to live there for about a year and teach English. They pay for room and board, and often the travel over there as well. I know I’d jump on that if I didn’t have so many other pursuits here at home.
Yesterday at 7:03am

Andy Walters: Greg, don’t quit your job. You’re right that you have a responsibility to your family and that to abandon your only source of income immediately would be immoral and foolish. Is there more to life than jobs you hate? Of course. Should you stick with those jobs for long? Nope. The central issue here is not your own satisfaction–it’s your moral responsibility to your dependents.
Yesterday at 7:04am

Natalie Lamb: @Greg – I think you’d be mad to quit your job!!!! Did I hear right that you have an autistic child that you are responsible for? Having fostered them I know they need a strong, loving secure family to grow and open…. Financial stress causes a high pitched squeal that flips them out into deeper pathology. My adivce- not that you’ve asked!!! Be completely and totally responsible. Do not quit NOW. That hatred you have is perfect and delicious fuel to MAKE you work your business MORE… Let that be the fire that gets you up and motivated to wake early to work it, and go to bed later to work your home business. My mentor says teaches that when your business is doing DOUBLE what you job’s income is then it’s time to leave your job… otherwise you become desperate and repel energy. You need to be in an abndant place to bring in more. Living our purpose and dreams can happen ALONGSIDE your job… until you have earnt enough to let go of what you hate. Steve – you know I love you… and I disagree with you this time! xox
Yesterday at 7:18am

Erica Schaefer: @Allen: I have looked into that.. but you have to at least have a 4 yr degree and often be certified… which I could get certified but I don’t have a degree… used to be able to do it without one.. but so much competition has caused them to change the rules. I have considered blogging/ travel writing… but I still have to have some money to start traveling… I can’t even pay all my bills and barely have money to eat right now… and blogs require time to make money from…
Yesterday at 7:18am

Andrew Sylvia: Greg: Look for another job while working your current job. People do this all the time. The fact that you hate your job might give you more urgency in doing this. I think it would be silly to up and quit unless you had some other way to feed your family.
Yesterday at 9:33am

Dawn Finley Tucker: I was the latter until recently :)
Yesterday at 9:49am

Mark Chapman: @ Erica, if you are interested in travel and languages, begin learning a language. There are free courses in public libraries. It could come in useful in ways you can’t see now.
Yesterday at 10:56am

Rose Rowan: yusss! i just left my job that wasn’t giving me ease, joy or lightness…now i have more space for goodness! oink
Yesterday at 11:18am

Greg DiBruno: To everyone that understands where I am coming from. Thank you. Not because you are just understanding my side, but because you gave actual advice. I too enjoy Steve’s blog and what he says, but most of the people that gave the “up and Quit” advice either are really well off or forgot the crossroad they were at when they were there. See, a Tony Robbins would actually talk through everything with someone. I have seen him do it and also read about it. He isn’t rude nor does he put you down if you don’t get something. Steve, I do have respect for you. But truth be told, most people only know you from your blog. In this day and age, it could be all made up. How do we know? Is that what I think? No. But I have questioned many things you have put up on here. The one was living an open marriage as you did. When you posted about your separation or divorce, I was not shocked at all. There is no way something like that can work. There is reason a Tony Robbins has worked with so many people from all walks of life. What’s your resume? Not that I need to know. I am just surprised how someone who wants to reach out and help people can be so harsh. Again, I’m not saying I am going to unfriend you as you said, but it just makes me wonder. Thanks anyway. I wasn’t BSing you as you put it. How you can come up with that when you don’t even know me and without asking even one question. When you reach the Robbins status, maybe I’ll listen. I hope my honesty doesn’t anger you because I am not trying to. I’m not mad or upset, just wanted to speak my mind.
Yesterday at 2:14pm

Faiqah Mumtaz: @ Greg… it’s ok man, everyone has a different way to explain their point of view. I might be very nice to you, etc but doesn’t mean I’m extra-caring than those who have a harsher “matter-of-fact” way of explaining. Not at all :)
Yesterday at 4:24pm

Ayo Fashola: @Greg…its really unfortunate you feel that way about what Steve is telling you. What Steve is saying is absolutely correct. U are being a coward actually and all i hear as i read your comments are your wimpering and whining. Quit the damn job. I did this 3 years ago with no savings to start my own business as a style/fashion consultant. Best decision i ever made. You will not know what to do untill you quit. If u want to drone on abt ur problems…get a therapist. If u want a happy and fulfilling career…quit. When i quit..i was now in a do or die position. I HAD to tell everyone what i did for a busines…shit i gotta eat. I charged $45hr..QUICKLY discovered that was too low and increased it. Don’t listen to other cowards. Focus on the solution…not your problems
about an hour ago

Ayo Fashola: btw..Andy and Andrew are both incorrect. I bet they don’t even work for themselves yet.
about an hour ago

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  5. 19. Spread Your Enthusiasm [Translate] Putting the Action Principles® to work in your life will elevate your soul and lift your spirit. You...
  6. 13. Risk FailureBe ready. There is no better time to start taking posi tive action than right now. You research and you...
  7. 7. Commit to Never Ending ImprovementConstantly seek ways to do things better in all areas of your life. The Japanese have a word for the...
  8. 9. Make Today SpecialMany people enjoy using the first few minutes of the day for their reflective time. How did yesterday go? What...
  9. 8. Be FrugalSeparate your wants from your needs. You want to work for all you need, not necessarily for all you want....
  10. 22. Lead by ExampleStart acting immediately as the person you will be, a person of character with a sound reputation. Your words, your...

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